Are Handsome Men More Attractive to Women?
12.5.19
Are Handsome Men More Attractive to Women?
- If you browse dating sites regularly, you will find many "pick up artist
gurus" that tell you that women don't care about men's appearance and
physical appearance? They are not interested in handsome handsome men, but
through their personalities. Do you believe that?
Well, for me the
appearance is not too meaningful for women if you talk about long-term
relationships that have been well established. However, when it comes to
meeting women for the first time, good looks and good physical impressions are
certainly very valuable for that sparkling shared interest!
You see, during
the first meeting between a man and a woman, both parties put the same amount
of influence on each other's appearance. This is only natural.
I mean, if
you're around a girl, your attention will definitely be on the hottest or most
handsome girl there, right? So less attractive girls will usually be more than
after thinking about you, right?
Believe it or
not, the same applies to women and be warned, if you meet a girl for the first
time, she will definitely care about your appearance. I mean, after all, the
girl doesn't know anything about you or your personality because you just met,
naturally it's said that the only thing that can impress you and make her want
to know you more is yours looks and looks, right?
Now this will
mean that men and women use appearance as an initial way to evaluate each other
and judge each other. What else can you do to measure each other? This cannot
be disputed at this point in time during the first meeting. After all, this is
an unconscious process that happens every time you meet someone new.
Okay, to be fair
to others who say that girls aren't interested in good looks and impressions
because once girls know you better, they will be less influenced by your
appearance and start paying attention to your personality and whether you have
an X factor.
This is why most
men with average appearances fail to go through the first stage of getting to
know women well until the appearance no longer plays a dominant factor in
women's interest.
So for most of
us, the irony is that we cannot simply pass the "first impression"
with women if we are not so handsome!
Hey, if you
agree with me before, you will know that a girl judges you based on the way you
see and then whoosh, most of the time she is not interested because she already
has many men who look better to drool on her and she knows it especially if she
is a beautiful girl. He only has too many cherries to choose from when it comes
to guys. Simple law of supply and demand.
Look, if you
queue at a grocery store and a beautiful girl is in front of you at the cash
register and you only have one minute to talk to her, how could you show her
that you are an extraordinary man and you can be the best boyfriend in the
world? He certainly won't give you any time or opportunity if at least he
doesn't find you at least a little interesting or rather handsome, right?
On the other hand, men tend to continue
to give a lot of emphasis on how a woman looks even after they know her well.
Guys like hot chicken, it's that simple. Women are far more likely to date men
who are not so handsome if he knows him well and loves his personality. But you
can rarely find handsome men dating women who aren't so attractive unless they
want something else from them.
The point is this, you don't have to
have the appearance of a handsome movie star or be a handsome guy who is
charming to have an initial attraction with women. Women are also realistic.
You just need to look pretty handsome so that you can skip the first meeting
for the chance to show your great personality. If you can skip that stage, he
will stop caring how you look so much.
If you are an average Joe, don't worry
friends, everything isn't lost. I'm sure you've seen photos of the makeover,
right? You have seen how those people can take care of themselves so well that
their appearance really changes, right? Well, do what they do!
If you are overweight, lose weight and
if you are underweight, go to the gym and exercise. Change your clothes with
more fashionable clothes and accessories. Visit a local aesthetic expert You to
clean stains or pigmentation on your face and so on and so on. There are many
things you can do to be handsome, handsome and attractive to get past the first
obstacle with women! Just do it!
